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  • Practical Ways to Tell the Difference between Strategy and Manipulation
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    Practical Ways to Tell the Difference between Strategy and Manipulation

    Picture this: two people want their ideas to be considered. One waits to observe the dynamics first, collects data, and schedules a meeting with the project lead with a polished slide show. The other tightens their tone, repeats half-truths, dredges up unrelated guilt, and makes it feel rude to deny. This is just one comparison

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  • Honesty Doesn’t Make Your Judgement a Fact
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    Honesty Doesn’t Make Your Judgement a Fact

    People love heroism. Playing the sage, savior, advisor, or authority figure has an irresistible pull for those in a certain psychological state. As a result, honesty often comes with a surge of self-fueled enthusiasm. But does that make their opinion worth listening to? Many people assume that if they are being honest, their opinions automatically

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  • The Paradox of Revenge: Mission Impossible for Abuse Survivors
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    The Paradox of Revenge: Mission Impossible for Abuse Survivors

    Hear me out: I get it. As survivors, even just the mental picture of slapping abusers (and their crew) in the face or watching their hideous true colors revealed in a public exposée can give us an instant dopamine rush. But in reality, many brave and beautiful reborn souls face a paradox of revenge that feels

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  • How Are Self-Esteem and Ego Related in One Person?
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    How Are Self-Esteem and Ego Related in One Person?

    “That person’s ego is huge.” We’ve all heard or said something like this at some point. We often use “ego” and “self-esteem” interchangeably or as labels (if someone does X, then they must be Y). While this is not entirely wrong, especially when we need a mental shortcut, understanding how self-esteem and ego are related

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  • Can We Really Date Our Way Out of a Dysfunctional Family?
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    Can We Really Date Our Way Out of a Dysfunctional Family?

    Most people who are trapped in toxic relationships are not naive or weak. Instead, they might be the most perceptive, emotionally intelligent, and perfectly capable of identifying dysfunction in other people’s lives. The pattern they cannot seem to see is their own. And when they finally do see it, the explanation tends to reach back

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