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  • How to Spot a Pseudo-Intellectual in Real Life?
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    How to Spot a Pseudo-Intellectual in Real Life?

    We all know the saying, “Do not argue with stupid people; they will drag you to their level and beat you with experience” (widely attributed to American writer Mark Twain). But what about pseudo-intellectuals? This group is even more concerning (and insidious), as they may “look smart” to deceive others for personal gain. And truly…

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  • Busting between friends Does Not Necessarily Suggest a Better Friendship
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    Busting between friends Does Not Necessarily Suggest a Better Friendship

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  • Have You Ever Done Silly Things Just to Avoid People?
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    Have You Ever Done Silly Things Just to Avoid People?

    So, you would pretend to check the mailbox for longer than necessary just to avoid taking the elevator with a neighbor. And occasionally, you would walk three more blocks just because you saw an acquaintance coming from afar? Or you would “accidentally” have to get off the train at a random stop only to finish…

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  • Why Some People Love to Dismiss Spirituality’s Therapeutic Role
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    Why Some People Love to Dismiss Spirituality’s Therapeutic Role

    Over the years, I have encountered people who rushed to jump into a conversation to dismiss spirituality’s role when we talked about therapeutic approaches. Some of them are in the field, while others aren’t. Typically, one friend, overwhelmed by existential panic or emotional burnout, finds solace and genuine grounding in a tarot reading, crystals, aura…

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  • Why Do Some People Love to Leave Messages on Read?
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    Why Do Some People Love to Leave Messages on Read?

    Yes, I am one of the “some people”. In my defense, it depends on how urgent the message is. If your house is not on fire, your credit card is not declined at the pharmacy for a prescription (that you have to take that day), or you are not in the ER, please do not…

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