Category: Psychology
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Your Feeling of Being the “Final Version” Is An Illusion
We’ve all been there: scrolling through old photos, you marvel at how much you’ve evolved. The angsty teen who hated vegetables is gone, replaced by a kale-smoothie enthusiast. Your music tastes flipped from emo anthems to indie folk. Relationships that once defined you faded, making way for new priorities. Reflecting on these shifts feels profound—proof…
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Cognition, Culture, Language, Personal Growth, Psychology, Self-Care Essentials, Weekly Article, WellnessLearning a New Language Is Beneficial to the Brain
For most people, learning a second language is a practical decision: career advancement or immigration. What tends to get less attention is what the process is doing to the brain in the background. But there are many benefits of learning a new language that can change the brain structure. Over the past decades, research on…
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How Are Self-Esteem and Ego Related in One Person?
“That person’s ego is huge.” We’ve all heard or said something like this at some point. We often use “ego” and “self-esteem” interchangeably or as labels (if someone does X, then they must be Y). While this is not entirely wrong, especially when we need a mental shortcut, understanding how self-esteem and ego are related…
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Are We Living in a Just World?
When you experience something unfortunate and eventually reach out to talk about it, you’ll notice a pattern in how people respond. They’ll ask questions that sound like curiosity but feel like interrogation. “Have you tried?” “You should’ve done/I would do xyz!” “What did you do that might have contributed to the situation?” These questions may…
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Can We Really Date Our Way Out of a Dysfunctional Family?
Most people who are trapped in toxic relationships are not naive or weak. Instead, they might be the most perceptive, emotionally intelligent, and perfectly capable of identifying dysfunction in other people’s lives. The pattern they cannot seem to see is their own. And when they finally do see it, the explanation tends to reach back…
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